very.big.bot If you don't know what someone is going through, you don't get to say that it's "just for attention," or that their problems "aren't valid" or "aren't that bad." What you said was extremely disrespectful. Maybe YOU don't express yourself, but some people do and you do NOT have the right to be disrespectful about it.

You saying that is directly trying to prevent people from opening up. My life is different to yours. stop assuming people are like that. Its a very negative look on life. This is how I am trying to deal with it. If I dont bring it out, I cannot deal with it. Your claim is very harmful to people going through this, your asympathetic attitude puts on plainly that you havent been through soething this magnitude please stop. Dont encourage people to hide their issues.

I do not have to explain my situation to you. You have to realise that everone goes through different things, you fail to mention the loss of life, and separation from friends. Your claim that this is for attention. Not the attention your thinking of, maybe thats what you looked for if you wnt through this. YUou have to understand not everyone is that selfish. bringing my situation to peoples attention is the first step to getting help for it.

we all have our own problems, some worse than others, we just learn how to deal and overcome them